Can jealousy be controlled with essential oils? Why not -- after all it is just a chemical trigger circulating in your body. And though it feels as if it is your mind (and where is this amorphous thing u call the mind located in your body?) that feels it, all emotions are just biological events. So, according to aromatherapy, jealousy can be controlled by having a massage with oils of bergamot and ylang ylang added to your base oil... Both are fantastic oils.The first is stimulating, the other is healing and calming. Maybe there is something there?!!